Monday, September 29, 2014

Enduring OUR Trials Well

            Most people talk about having a love like Romeo & Juliet, but this isn't exactly who we should be idealize; after all their union ended in double suicide.  Their marriage didn't last long due to their early deaths, nor was it tested. Love is meant to be tested!             It’s unrealistic to think that marriage is going to be all roses and love poems.  Marriages, often tested as couples experience the ups and downs of life...

Friday, September 26, 2014

The Path to Better Communication: Starting with Listening

Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse where you were completely absorbed in what you had to say, but not in what your spouse was saying?  I have to admit I’ve been guilty of this and after remembering the conversation.  I would realize that I was so focused on what I wanted to say next that I didn’t even bother to “listen” to my husband.  Maybe you can relate? Like a typical Bad Listener you may hear your spouse speaking, but may not be “listening” to what they are actually saying.  I’m sure we all understand...